"THE LAND OF THE MIDNIGHT SUN"
THE USS DALY’S AND USS SMALLEY’S Unbeknown to either, a certain beautiful Finnish
Maiden or a young Sailor on an American Navy Destroyer at sea, the "WHEELS OF
FATE" were turning slowly, bring their two different worlds closer with each
passing day, like two ships in the "Sea of Life," on a collision course with
each other.
The Head Bookkeeper at Helsingin Sanomat, learned
that Helsinki was going to be visited by two American Naval War ships (the first
since WW II and the on set of the COLD WAR ). She knew both Tyyne and Vieno and
she also knew that both girls could speak and understand English. She had
connections at the Newspaper and managed to get hold of two tickets to the Dance
being planned to welcome the American sailors to Finland and Helsinki.
Neither Tyyne or Vieno were very excited about the
prospects of going to a dance full of foreign American sailors, since they did
not feel all that confident about their English speaking abilities and were apprehensive about going to the dance. The head
bookkeeper, thought otherwise and she insisted that the girls should attend and
she had to almost force Tyyne and Vieno to accept the tickets to the dance. She
made them promise that they would use them, and she also expected a report of
how things went. LIBERTY CALL, HELSINKI FINLAND’S GEM OF THE SEA 31 JULY- 2 AUGUST 1955
It was a
bright sunny morning with the crispness of approaching fall in the air, as the
USS Daly and USS Smalley headed toward Helsinki Finland. The temperature
increased, as the sun rose in the beautiful clear blue sky on 31 July 1955. I heard them pass the word, "Now
hear this ! Now hear this ! Set the Special Sea Detail, Port Side –To, in
preparations for entering port." Fox division Personnel ( Torpedomen,
Fire Controlmen and Sonarmen ) manned the after no. 4 Spring line, that secures
the stern of the ship, as part of our duties for Entering and leaving port.
Since the Daly was the "Flagship" of DESDIV 302, we were the lead ship into port
today. Both ships tied up at Helsinki’s South Port Harbour Ship’s Pier. There
were Finnish sailors on the pier waiting to assist in Handling the lines on the
pier and securing the two American destroyers.
The Commodore, Captain and XO were the first to go
ashore to meet with City Leaders, American Ambassador etc. We also had some
dignitary’s visit the ship. It was not long, before the news got out, that two
American destroyers were in Helsinki. By mid morning, people started showing up
at the South Harbour Pier to see the first two American "Man-Of-Wars," to visit
Helsinki, since the end of World War II and the beginning of the " COLD WAR
."
The duty section crews of the two Tin Cans were all
very busy cleaning and scrubbing both ships squeaky clean. All our ( TM ) top
side gear, Torpedo Tube Mount, etc. Were pretty well squared away and did not
require much effort to make them " Ship Shape." We had three section "Cinderella liberty" ( we had to
be back aboard ship by 2400, midnight ) while in Helsinki. I thought Helsinki
was going to be just Another port of call in a foreign country, I had only read
about in Geography books in school. I had no idea, how the "Wheels Of Fate"
were turning, and what was in store for this young,
unsuspecting " Tin Can Sailor." We would be in Helsinki for only three days, and I
had liberty on the first and second days in port, and duty on the third and last
day. It was a bright, beautiful sunny morning when we arrived and all hands on
board were anxious to go ashore. Liberty was called at 1100 and I was ready by
1130. All the " Liberty Hounds " were long gone, by the time I meandered up to
the Quarter Deck. I Saluted the OD (Officer of the Deck) showed him my Liberty
Card and asked "Permission to Go Ashore,
Sir." He returned my salute and replied "Permission
Granted." I stopped before stepping onto the Brow (gangway),
turned to face the National ensign (American flag) flying from the flagstaff on
the fantail (stern of the ship), rendered a smart salute and proceeded to walk
down the gangway on my first day of liberty ashore in Finland’s beautiful " Gem
of the Sea." I had no special plans of what I was going to do, I was just going
to play it by ear and take things as they came. I had my trusty Argus C-4 35 mm camera with me, to
capture anything of interest that appealed to me. I just walked around and took
in the sights of a clean and beautiful city by the sea. By evening, I ended up
at Linnanmäki, an amusement park on the eastern part of the city, about three
miles from the ship. I stayed at the park most of the early evening. I headed
back toward the South Port Harbour, as late evening shadows fell, because I did
not know of any night life. I got Back in time to catch " Movie Call " on the
ship. Which goes around 2000. I was very hungry, after walking all day taking in
the sights. I left the ship before the mid day meal. I had only a few dollars
in Finnish currency, not enough to eat at a restaurant. There was no food to
be had on the Daly, not until breakfast the next day. In my traveling around Helsinki, I found it to be a
very clean city. I was impressed with the number of people on bicycles and the
light motor vehicle traffic. The people I encountered appeared to be friendly.
That is the impression I left with, because almost every one I greeted with a
nod and smile, returned my gesture of friendship. There were some people that
appeared very reserved, and they just looked at me, but their demeanor did not
appear to indicate they harbored any hostile feelings toward American
sailors.
All except for one young woman. I was just walking
along all by myself, not too far from South Port, where the Daly and Smalley
were tied up, when I saw a young women walking toward me on the sidewalk. As we
approached, I looked directly at her, made eye contact, smiled and nodded my
head in a silent greeting. I was taken by surprise when she returned my smile
of friendship with a sneer and a nasty look. She was the only person I
encountered, who’s demeanor displayed an obvious dislike of sailors. I don’t
know if it was because I was an American, or because I was a sailor, or both.
Perhaps she had a bad experience with one, since not all sailors adhere to the
values and moral conduct I was instilled with by my dear mother and father.
The second day in port, 1 August 1955 turned out to
be overcast, but warm. I was out of my bunk before reveille, I was so hungry.
My stomach thought my throat had been cut, since it had not had any food in a
long time. I navigated my way up to the "After Crew’s Head" ( bathroom )
shaved, had another fight with Gillette (cut myself) with a new razor blade. I
wasted no time, I made a "Bee-line" for the "Crew’s Mess Deck" (dining
compartment) located one deck below the main deck, forward under the Officers
Wardroom (meeting / dining room) and bridge superstructure. I had a big
breakfast this time, I had enough food to keep me going all day.
Liberty was called at 1100, I explored the town some
more and took some pictures. As evening shadows began to fall, I was through
sight seeing. Since I did not know where there was any night life, I was
making my way back to the ship through the clean, quiet streets of downtown
Helsinki. I approached a street intersection, I always look
both ways before I cross any street. There was not much vehicle traffic to
speak of. As I looked to my left, in the distance I saw two "
White- Hats " (sailors) standing outside a building, about two city blocks away.
Since it was not too far out of my way, I decided to see what they were up to.
I changed course and began to walk in their direction. I looked away for a few
moments to check for cars before crossing the street and when I looked back ,
they were no where in sight The sailors I had seen standing outside,
disappeared from sight and I did not see which way they went. I arrived at the area where I thought they had been
standing, I did not know their exact location. I stopped and looked around, I
did not see any signs of life. All was quiet as I stood there, outside the
vintage building, looking and wondering where the sailors had gone. After a few
minutes of silence, I began to walk away, and continue navigating my way back to
the South Port Harbour. Then, I heard the faint sound of music coming from
behind me, it sounded like a band playing. I stopped in my tracks, I turned
around and listened for a minute. It appeared to be coming from somewhere
around the area where I had been standing before, it sounded like dance music.
A dance appeared to be in progress some where inside. I started walking back
looking for the source . Apparently, someone had opened the door to the
Ballroom to let some fresh air in . The Band returned from a rest break and
began playing again. The sound of music came floating out the open doorway.
Had the band began to play 5 seconds later, I would have been beyond hearing
distance . Although I liked to dance, I did not consider myself
a very good dancer. I had been to only one real dance in my life, the "ROTC
Ball," only two months prior to my graduating from high school and leaving for
Navy Boot Camp. I had not been to a single dance since that time. Since the evening was still young and I did not have
to be back aboard the Daly until 2400, I decided to drop in and see what the
story was. Not because I wanted to dance so much, but because I like listening
to good dance music and I had nothing better to do back at the ship, except
possibly catch the end of "Movie Call" (shipboard movies for the crew). "Movie
call" is announced almost every night at 2000 (8 o’clock ) in port, as well at
out at sea. Perhaps, I could just sit and listen to the band and
see if any of my shipmates were there. I entered the dimly lit Ballroom, and to
my surprise, it turned out that I had somehow stumbled into the place where the
dance was being held to welcome the crews of the two American Naval Ships. I vaguely recalled something being mentioned about a
dance, at the morning "Quarters for Muster," but I was not paying much
attention, since I was not really interested in going to a dance. I did not
have any knowledge as to where the dance was being held, not even a clue.
Looking back, " The Wheels of Fate" were guiding my wondering footsteps
on a collision course with the "Destiny" that awaited me in Helsinki and in that
vintage building. Little did I know what fate had in store for me at that
dance, it would change my life forever. If I had been 30 seconds later at the intersection,
the sailors would not have been out side the building, I would not have seen
them. I would not have found the dance and met the Finnish beauty who
completely changed my outlook on life and the meaning of true love. The ballroom appeared dark as I entered it, and it
took a few moments for my eyes to get accustomed to the dimly lit room. At
first, I just stood against a nearby wall and looked around, to get a picture of
what was happening and who was there. I saw that the room was full of sailors
from the two American Destroyers, Finnish sailors and lovely Finnish young
women, acting as hostesses.
At first, I was only going to just look and listen
to the band playing, but than the music got me in a dancing mood and I thought I
would give it a whirl. Perhaps, try some of the slow dance numbers, not
because I felt romantic, but simply because it was the only kind of dancing that
I felt I could do. I could do a pretty good two step. I was not like the rest
of the fellows that go out and dance every kind of dance, even if they don’t
know how to perform the dance properly and have to fake it. I was very self-conscious about that fact and never
attempted to be some thing other than myself, and I knew my knowledge of dancing
was very limited, as I had been to only one real dance in my entire life, the
"Military Ball "at Austin high school. I waited until they played a dance number I thought
I could handle, and asked one of the hostesses to dance with me. I spoke to
her as we danced, but she didn’t say anything back. I danced with a few more
hostesses but either none of them spoke English, or else none of them were
interested in making the conversation two-sided (charming young man that I was,
I’m sure it was the former, not the latter!). Feeling not very encouraged, I soon left the dance
floor and walked around until I found
a good vantage point from where I could view almost the entire ballroom. To my
right, was an area under a balcony with a row of chairs, although my eyes had
become accustomed to the dimly lit dance floor, it was still too dark to see
everything very clearly from a distance. I noticed two young ladies who were sitting
together, my attention was caught by the taller of the two girls. I did nothing
for a while, I just stood and watched her from afar. She was wearing a dark
colored, simple yet elegant sleeveless dress and to me, even in the dimly lit
room she was a vision of beauty, such as my eyes had never seen. Up until now I
had no problem asking any of the other girls to dance, because none of them held
any special interest to me, other than just dance partners. But for some
strange reason, the mere thought of asking my newly discovered Finnish beauty to
dance, made me nervous and my heart beat faster. It took me some time to muster up enough courage to
walk over to where she was sitting and ask her to dance. I took a deep breath,
straightened my uniform jumper and nervously walked over to her, in my best
posture possible.
As I approached nearer, she looked up, and our eyes
met, I extended my hand in a gesture to join me to dance. She smiled up at me
as she extended her arm and took my hand. Her hand was soft and warm in mine as
I led her out into the crowded dance floor.
I turned around and put my right arm around her slim
waste, and when she placed her left arm on my right shoulder, my life was
changed forever. My lips could move and talk, my feet could stand and walk,
yet my heart stood still. Although not a single word was spoken, the closeness
of her dancing next to me filled my heart with emotions I had never experienced
before in my sheltered young life.
She was taller than I thought, light and graceful on
her feet, and she had a wonderful aura about her. I breathed in all of her
delicate fragrance. There was a regal air about the way she carried herself,
elegant but not snobbish, that made me think of her as a Finnish Princess. She
had almost no makeup at all that I could see, except for a little lipstick, and
even though being this close to her was a wonderful overwhelming feeling, I was
also very comfortable in her presences. There was just something about her
that captured my heart and mind so completely. For some dumb reason I did not try to talk to her.
I guess I assumed that she, like all of my other dance partners before, could
not speak English. After our dance music ended, I escorted her back to her
chair, and I returned to my observation post, a large support column ( pardon
the pun ) about 15 feet away. The band played several fast dance numbers, but I
was not in a fast dance music mood ( for the reasons already stated ), and I did
not dance. Try as I may, I could not keep from looking in her direction, or get
her out of my mind. I waited anxiously for the band to play a slow romantic
dance number, so that I could ask her to dance again.
I saw another sailor heading in her direction and
suddenly, I was brave, I jumped into action and quickly covered the distance
between us in only a few fleeting moments. She appeared to be waiting for me
(at least, I wanted to believe she was waiting for me ! ). My heart was
pounding wildly in my chest, and I was sure people could see my poor heart
beating beneath my uniform jumper. Feeling momentarily encouraged and without
thinking about whether she could speak English or not, I just started talking to
her as we danced. Imagine my pleasant surprise, when she talked back to me,
and in beautiful English too. I loved the way she spoke, and how beautifully she
pronounced her words. I’m sure she told me her name, "Tiina,"
but ironically, I was so captivated by her voice and everything about her, that
I could not remember it. This time when the music stopped, I walked her back to
her seat beside the other lovely young lady, that Tiina introduced to me as her
sister Fifi. I sat beside Tiina, to her left, and we had a wonderful
conversation, the three of us. The conversation must have been amusing to her
and her sister, because they were laughing a great deal of the time (at my
humorous remarks, I’m sure!)
A Finnish sailor ( he appeared to be an older, more
experienced, man, about the equivalent of our Chief Petty Officer ) came over to
where we were sitting and he started talking to us. Although I could not
understand a single word he spoke, I understood that we were friends, Finland
and America. Tiina, also informed me that her small country was the only country
to have repaid the debt of the war loan Finland had received from the United
States during WW II. After a while, the Finnish sailor wondered away, and
Tiina, her sister Fifi and yours truly looked for and found a vacant table. We
sat down and ordered some non- alcoholic refreshments. A shipmate of mine, Bill
Moser (A sonarmen on the Daly) wondered up to our table and joined us as we sat,
and the conversation continued among the four of us. My mind, however was preoccupied with my Finnish
dancer, Tiina. I could not keep my eyes away from her for more than a few
seconds at a time. I must have appeared like a love sick sailor to them, but
they being real ladies, did not indicate they though anything along those lines.
It was such a pleasure to be in their company that I lost all track of time.
I was pleased, when I learned that she had also been looking for me after our
first dance together. Although the ballroom was dimly lit, she told me she
could tell where I was whenever I would smile and laugh because she could see my
white teeth shinning in the dark. I had to laugh, because the fellows onboard the Daly
would tease me, because I had acquired a dark tan and my teeth were really
white, and at night when we would be watching a movie in the Crews Mess Deck ,
they would always say, "Smile, Granados, so
we can see where you are."
The reason they wanted to keep tabs (know my
whereabouts) on me, is because on several occasions, while watching a movie down
in the Crews Mess Deck, I was known to wait until there was a tense moment in
the movie when everyone’s attention was completely focused on what appeared on
the movie screen (white sheet). At the most tense moment, I would sneak back to
the tray rack located at the back of the mess deck, pick up a stack of stainless
steel food trays, raise them up high, and drop them onto the steel deck and exit
quickly and hide. Because some, if not all of the crew watching would like to
get their hands on me for scaring the hell out of them. That is the reason
they always wanted to know where I was, so that they could keep an eye on me.
I also
learned later, that she did not think I though much of her, because I had such a
hard time remembering her name for more than a few minutes. I kept asking her,
"What is your name again?" all during
our conversation. Little did she know I was so captivated by her, that I could
not remember her name for more than a few minutes, and so I kept asking her what
it was.
As the evening drew to a close, I asked Tiina and
Fifi if I could escort them home. They both laughed and informed me that it
would be a very long walk, as they lived in Malmi, a small suburb about 12
kilometers east of Helsinki, and that they planned to take the night commuter
train back to Malmi. However, they did say that I could walk them to the train
station, which was only a few blocks distance from where we were. My buddy
Bill also came along for the walk. After we had walked a short distance it
began to rain, at least they told me it began to rain. I did not feel the rain
drops, only the sweet loveliness of Tiina walking by my side.
Before I knew it, we were outside the train station. There was a Taxi Cab parked
near the entrance to the station, and Tiina and Fifi decided to take a taxi
home, instead of waiting for the late night train. Fifi said "Good
– Bye" and entered the cab. Tiina had been sharing her umbrella with her
sister Vieno, as we all walked together. She closed her umbrella said "Good –Bye," turned and started to enter the
taxi. She paused for a moment, then she stepped back out, turned around and
handed me her Umbrella, saying to me, "Take
my umbrella, so you don’t get wet when you walk back to your ship." I was completely taken by surprise by her
considerate, thoughtful gesture, and responded in the only way I could think of.
I just stood there like a dummy! First, I didn’t know if it was gallant to
accept, and second, I had never seen a sailor with an umbrella in my life and
wondered if I was breaking a tradition!
Tiina, repeated the offer, urging me to take the
umbrella, I finally regained my senses and accepted her umbrella. She gave me
a sweet smile, said "Good-bye ",
turned and entered the cab. She closed the door and lowered the window, she
waved good-bye out the open window as the cab pulled away and disappeared into
the rain- drenched night. I just stood there in the rain with the unopened
umbrella in my right hand, and watched the black taxi cab speed away, turn
around the corner disappearing from view. I turned around and looked at Bill,
we both smiled and we started walking back to the ship. For some strange reason, the small gesture of giving
me her umbrella had a very profound impact upon me. As I did not consider
myself to be a very emotional person, at least not until she handed me her
umbrella. As Bill and I navigated our way back to the Daly, my mood was much
like that of actor Gene Kelly’s in the movie "Singin’ in the Rain." What a
thoughtful and considerate person she was, I kept thinking over and over as Bill
and I made our way back to our ship. She had only met me for such a short time
(about 3 hours) and she knew very little about me. She did not know if she
would ever see me or her umbrella again. Besides, I was a foreigner, an
American sailor to boot, and single sailors, in general don’t have a very good
reputation of being faithful to their girls, you may have heard the old saying,
" A sailor has a girl in every port." . I was not like other sailors, I did not have even one
girl, and I was not on the prowl for one either. I was perfectly content just
as I was, unattached, and free to roam as I please. That is why I not
interested / paying attention ( at Quarters For Muster) concerning information
on the dance. This is why it was very difficult for me to comprehend, how this
lovely creature had completely changed my out look on life. I had been within
her sphere of influence for such a short time. She managed to accomplished that
feat, by just by being her natural, sweet self in my presence and her unselfish
and very thoughtful gesture.
I could not believe, that here I was, with a
completely new outlook on life. It entered my mind out of no where, I though,
I would like to find a girl like Tiina to marry, if and when the time came. I
thought to myself , how could I be contemplating such a serious act, as
matrimony. I was already thinking, how she had all the qualities I would be
looking for, in a girl I would be willing to settle down with and gladly give up
my bachelor wondering ways. As Bill and I navigated our way back to South Port
in a drenching downpour, to the pier where the Daly and Smalley were tied up, I
kept thinking to myself, how much I would like to marry a girl like her. A
thought, that until that fateful night, was completely foreign to me. As I had
never seriously entertained the thought or possibility of marriage. I was not
even going out to meet girls . I was content and happy with my life style as it was
. It was not that I did not like girls , I enjoyed female company ( meeting /
talking with them, etc.), but I was not looking for a female companion / romance
. It may sound strange, but the simple fact was that I just had not given the
subject of Dating , trying to meet girls / women much thought.
It was very strange, because until the moment I met
Tiina and she gave me her umbrella, marriage had been the farthest thing from my
mind. I was astounded at the thought, that my life could be changed so
completely, all because of a simple thoughtful, considerate gesture from a
Finnish beauty who had made such a grand entry into my young life. I did not get much sleep that night, I kept thinking
of my newly found Finnish beauty, Tiina. Before we parted company, Tiina told me
that she had to work the next day, but that she would try to come down to my
ship. I had duty the following day, 2 August 1955. The third and final full
day in Helsinki. I could not leave the ship except for the briefest of
moments, unless it was for official business. The last day in Helsinki, turned out to be a bright
sunny day. As I was going to breakfast up along the port (left) side of the
ship around 0630, I could see several older women sweeping the pier area next to
the ship, with what appeared to be home made brooms , a couple of them were
smoking cigars. The first time I ever witnessed wonen smoking scigars. I heard
some one say, the cigar smoke help keep the mosquitoes away. By mid morning,
the pier was buzzing with activity. Most of the people had come down to see
the two American destroyers. I kept looking out on the pier, scanning the sea of
people’ for my Finnish beauty.
Around noon, I heard my named called over the ships
1-MC speaker system "TMSN Granados, lay up
(report) to the Quarter Deck." I wondered what they wanted me for, I was
up on the 01 Deck (the first deck above the main deck) working on the torpedo
tube mount. Actually, I was up there because I had a good view of almost the
entire pier and I was taking pictures with my old Argus and looking for any
signs of my Finnish beauty, from my vantage point.
I scrambled down the ladder down to the Quarter
Deck area on the main deck, which was located almost directly under the torpedo
tube mount and reported to the Petty Officer of the Watch. He handed me a small
envelope with the words "Javy [sic] Granados" written on it, and pointed to a
young boy standing at the bottom of the gangway leading up to the ship. Inside
the envelope was a note from Tiina with sad news for me.
TIINA (TYYNE) MIRJAMI
KASSLIN Dear
Javy, I am sorry but I
cannot come today to see the ship as I promised. I am sending this boy from our
office so that you can give my umbrella to him, I hope he will find you as I am
not quite sure of your name. In case I don’t
see you any more, I wish you good luck, and thank you for the nice time I had
last night.
Yours
Tiina
My best regards
to Bill, don’t forget to write. Tiina, worked in the Advertising Department of
HELSINGIN SANOMAT, the largest Newspaper Company in FINLAND. The boy that
brought me her note, was a Copy Boy in her department. I ran down to my bunk,
in the after most living compartment on the stern of the Daly, to get Tiina’s
umbrella, which I had tucked under the mattress on my bunk. I also took time
to write a farewell response to Tiina: JAVIE ( JAVIER ) FRANCISCO
GRANADOS Dear
Tiina I am very sorry
that you could not come to my ship, but perhaps you could come to my ship after
work, because I would like to see you again before we leave. I could get off the
ship to talk to you and perhaps I can manage to bring you on board and show you
around. That is if you
want to. I enjoyed myself a great deal and I could not ask for better company
than yours. I only wish I could see you once again. I am sending your umbrella.
Thank you very
much, you were very sweet to let me use it last night. I hope you got home
safely. Love from a
Sailor Named
Javie P.S. I will
write
It was not meant for us to meet again, I kept looking
back on the pier, scanning the many faces in hope that my newly found Finnish
Beauty might have come down to see us depart. But I saw only strange faces in
the crowd, as the Daly pulled away and turned to head out of the harbor of
Helsinki. The two American Tin Cans, turn west into the Gulf of Finland on a
course heading to our next and final port of call in THE LAND OF THE MIDNIGHT
SUN, TURKU, once the Capital City of Finland. Although I had been within her sphere of influence
for only about three short hours, Tiina had made such an impression upon me,
that I could not get her image out of my mind, no matter how hard I tried. I
found it very hard to believe that I actually found myself missing this lovely
Finnish girl. Even though some people (including yours truly) might
think I barely knew her, and they were right. I knew very little about her or her culture, except
what little I had learned during our brief meeting, yet, that did not seem to matter much to me.
I already thought that she had all of the qualities, I was looking for in the girl whom I would
want to share the rest of my life with. I don’t know how I could be so certain,
since I had not known or dated more girls than you can count on one hand during
my entire life, and I had never even kissed a girl on the lips, nevertheless,
that is how I felt. The only question in my mind, was what she thought
of me. I had not the slightest clue as to what kind of an impression I had
left her with about me, and I did not know if she had a boyfriend and was
already spoken for or not. I didn’t know if she wanted anything more than a PEN
PAL, so she could practice her English. In short, I did not know much about
the Lovely Finn that had made such a grand entry into my life and turned it
upside down. As I stated before, I had no experience dealing with
the female gender. I did not know how to read a women’s response, other then
what I had learned from my mother and younger sister. There was a lot I did not
know, the only thing I was certain of, was the fact that she had indeed made a
profound impression upon me and my young heart.
I hate to admit it, but when I was a young Buck
(Half Breed American Indian, Tigua/Spanish mix) in High School, I was a very shy
lad, specially around girls I did not know. So much so that if I saw several
girls walking toward me on the sidewalk, I would cross the street to avoid
passing them.
When all the other boys were chasing and going out
with girls, I was riding my single speed, coaster brake Columbia Bicycle, 7
miles (one way) to the Archery Range, and occupying my time perfecting my game stalking and bow hunting skills,
chasing rabbits, instead of girls.
During the HOT (110 degrees in the shade) West Texas
Summer days, I would leave the house at sun up on my trusty Iron Horse, with my
Long Bow and handmade Goat skin (my Grandfather, on my mothers side, gave me a
goat pelt) Quiver full of arrows. I did not take any food and only a Boy Scout
canteen full of water with me. I wore long pants, a long sleeve shirt and wide brim
straw hat for protection from the blazing sun. After my water was gong, I used an old Apache
Indian (small smooth stone in the mouth) technique, to help keep my mouth from getting dry and
I did not feel very thirsty, it really worked. I would practice at the Archery Range for a while and
then I would head out into the nearby desert and spend the rest of the day
stalking and hunting rabbits (Cotton Tail and Jack). I would head for home when
the sun disappeared behind Mount Franklin and evening shadows began to fall. Although I had been around girls, all of my life
growing up, I never had any one girl that I had any romantic feelings for. The only girl I ever
spent any time with , was Gayle Picket . At Austin High School in 1953-1954.
That was due primarily to our comon interest in the sport of Fencing , we grew
to be good friends . I never considered Gayle any thing more then just a good
friend and Fencing partner. No girl ever made me feel as Tiina made me feel ,
with out saying a single word . Just by being within her sphere of influence .
I had a deep feeling that Tiina had indeed all the
qualities I was looking for in the women I was willing to settle down and gladly
spend the remainder of my life with. I did not want or have any desire to look
any farther. As far as I was concerned, she was the one for me. The big
question was, could I ever succeed in making her feel the same way about me. I
did not have much to offer her, except all my love and undying devotion to try
my best to make her happy and forever remain faithful to her, because she would
be the one and only true love of my life, if she would have me. TURKU, FINLAND We headed east along the picturesque southern coast
of Finland, to our next short port of call, Finland’s Oldest City, TURKU. We had
actually by-passed Turku on our way to Helsinki. Although I did go ashore in
Turku, I do not remember any vivid details about it, as my mind was preoccupied
with the beautiful Finn I had met and lost my heart to in Helsinki.
MOST NORTHERN PORT OF CALL
31 JULY - 2 AUGUST 1955
2 AUGUST 1955
HELSINKI, FINLAND
2
AUG 1955
2 AUGUST 1955
USS Daly DD 519
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ELSINKI, FINLAND 2 AUG
1955